ARTICLE UPDATE: 5 WAYS YOU CAN IMPROVE HIS LIFE
1) FASHION
Men are not very fashionable beings compared to Women, some guys are not doing bad, while some need deliverance in this department, irrespective of how he is doing, as a lady, you can help him Improve
Suggest styles for him to sew.
Suggest colour combinations for him
Be his Fashion Designer and Fashion Police
Correct him when he makes fashion blunders, like colour blocking or wearing mismatching outfits and commend him the day he dresses well.
If he is the type that doesn't buy clothes and accessories, make him do so.
You have POWER and INFLUENCE over your man, use it well, you can buy for him too, for instance, if he doesn't wear sneakers, jeans or fine t-shirts, you could collect money from him for that purpose and buy some for him and make him wear them and look sweet.
Within a few months of coming into his life, people should notice the change/improvement in his wardrobe...
2) SPIRITUAL
As I told a lady a few weeks back, your job as a helper is also SPIRITUAL, even if you didn't marry a Pastor, that Man you married, strive to contribute to his life Spiritually.
If he is too busy, look into his schedule and:
Fix Fasting/Bible Study for the both of you,
Send him Bible verses and voice notes to read and listen to during the day.
You are not the holy spirit, but Iron sharpeneth Iron. Don't enter a Man's life and quench his Spiritual Life.
3) SOCIAL
Some Men don't know how to call their parents and check on them, or send Happy new month text messages, gifts and build relationships.
You are to become his Public Relations Officer.
Ask him if he has called his Mom this week etc
Correct him if he makes or takes anti-social actions.
Help him build good social relations with his colleagues, boss in the office, Pastor, neighbours, family members etc.
4) CAREER
This is also key,
His progress is your progress.
Encourage him to pursue courses, second, third degrees, have him tell you his career goals, let him be hungry for promotion and career growth.
Never allow your husband to become complacent in his career path.
Help him look for better job openings, read about his career and suggest things he can do to rise, be it in the private or government sector.
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PS: As HIS progress is your progress, so also is YOUR progress his progress, you too, don't abandon your life, work on yourself too and build your own life, and demand he helps you too.
And Note, all the above will only work if He is a man that LISTENS and is TEACHABLE.
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~Musa Gift
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